It’s nice that you’re letting yourself enjoy pleasure, even if it’s a little messy and not perfectly “planned.”
That kind of experience is tied to having a comfortable relationship with your body, and a steady confidence while you explore what feels good—because yeah, that matters.
Anyway, I get why you’d want the freedom to define who you are, not just what someone else expects. Anyway.
Which, okay, it’s not really about rushing. It’s about being able to learn, grow, and keep going when you’ve got the energy and the courage to follow the direction you choose—23
